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These actions may increase your risk of a divorce

On Behalf of | Mar 22, 2022 | Divorce

It’s not uncommon for spouses to have arguments or disagreements. However, if it seems like you’re always engaged in a conflict with your spouse, it may be a sign that your relationship isn’t built to last. In a recent study, researchers cited four actions that may indicate that you’ll be taking a trip to a Pennsylvania divorce court at some point in the future.

Do you think that you’re better than your spouse?

In a healthy marriage, you and your spouse will see each other as equals. This means that you will include this person in important decisions such as how to invest a bonus check or where your child will go to school. If you don’t see your spouse as an equal, it may be a sign that you are in an unstable relationship. Your attitude of superiority may cause your spouse to resent you, which may lead to a request for a divorce.

Do you take responsibility for your actions?

It’s human nature to be sensitive to criticism even if you know that you aren’t a perfect person. However, it shouldn’t be an excuse to be defensive when you are called out for not being attentive enough or otherwise failing to be a good partner. Instead, you should listen to what your significant other has to say, acknowledge what he or she has said and try to resolve the issue.

Do you take extra steps to avoid confrontation?

Stonewalling occurs when you don’t even try to communicate with your spouse about issues that make you uncomfortable. Although it may seem like an effective way to avoid a nasty fight, it may cause long-term issues that result in the complete collapse of your marriage.

If you feel as if you are in a toxic relationship, it may be in your best interest to file for divorce. Prior to doing so, it may be a good idea to collect financial records, a copy of a prenuptial or postnuptial agreement or any other documents that might make it easier to obtain a favorable divorce settlement.